Emotional Intelligence- The Core of Josh McDaniels' Leadership
Having observed Josh McDaniels' interactions with the media and with his staff and players on the sidelines, I have realized that he is one of the most emotionally intelligent leaders I've ever seen. If you are not familiar with the term 'Emotional Intelligence' (or EI as I will refer to it from here on) here is a very basic definition:
The awareness of and ability to manage one's emotions in a healthy and productive manner.
EI is a relatively new area of study, in fact, it has only been recognized as a term and studied in depth since the early 1990's. If you are interested in digging deeper on the subject, I suggest reading the work of Mayer, Salovey, Cobb, and Caruso.
Bringing the subject back around to Coach McDaniels and the Broncos
It is fairly obvious to anyone who has paid attention that McDaniels doesn't exactly fit the mold of your standard NFL coach. It has nothing to do with his age. To outsiders, on the surface he appears to be aloof or arrogant; however, if you ask anyone on the inside who really has looked the man in the eye, I'm sure they would tell you there is something more under the surface. McDaniels' leadership core is based on his extraordinary EI.
Looking at the basic definition of EI, you might say 'okay, so he's aware of his emotions and can manage them in a healthy way.' Well, that isn't the whole story- McDaniels isn't only keyed in on his own emotions, he has an innate ability to read the emotions of those around him. Further, he knows exactly how to work with people on an interpersonal level to get the very best out of them. This is why the media has been so very wrong about McDaniels- they have based everything they've said on the surface observations they've had access to.
Player after player, pundit after pundit- their perceptions of McDaniels change immediately after they have met McDaniels in person. I've never met McDaniels, but look at the record. Players have admitted they had negative preconceptions of McDaniels, yet after they met the Coach, they are 100% behind the man. Obviously, when you meet any leader worth his/her salt in person and you will come away with an understanding of why that person is a leader. McDaniels appears to far exceed that basic level. Look what happened with Brandon Marshall after McDaniels finally broke through to him. I predict that Marshall will be one of the most loyal players McDaniels will have in the long run. Marshall himself is very strong-willed/ yound and immature, but McDaniels recognized he could eventually reach him, thereby forming the strongest of bonds.
McDaniels' EI is such that he has been able to perfectly identify the players who he can effectively reach on an EI level. He removed those players who he could not reach (Jay Cutler.) Many of his players are above average EI as well. Kyle Orton and Brian Dawkins stand out. You might say, 'Brian Dawkins, are you crazy? He's a maniac all over the field and certainly doesn't seem to be in control of his emotions!' Well, actually, Brian Dawkins is a maniac on the field, but he effectively uses his emotions to lead the entire defense on the field like no other. Think about it. Look at Kyle Orton, when faced with the daunting task of driving his team down the field for a second 90+ yard 4th quarter drive in order to win the game, he embraced his own emotions, recognized the emotions of his teamates, cracked a joke and went on a calm Sunday drive to win the game. Also, I love that McDaniels shows his emotions on the sidelines. Don't think for a minute that he lost control when he pumped his fist 4 times while screaming his bloody head off- there was more to it than that.
McDaniels has EI at the core of everything he does. Mr. Bowlen could see that when he hired him. I believe that Shanahan was the greatest coach in Broncos history; however, he fell short of creating a dynasty in Denver. I never got the sense that Shanahan was high EI. It is for this reason, I believe McDaniels has a good shot at breaking records in Denver.
EI-that's why you can call him McGenious
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McDaniels vs. Shanahan
The thing about Josh is that he seems to be genuine. My first impression of him was that he was arrogant. But after being expsosed to him for these last months, he is the opposite. He is humble. At his press confrences he is honest and tries to answer the question. If When Mike Shanahan won two game in a row he ‘d very condecending to the press. I’m grateful to Shanny but ….. why ………..is he such a hot item when he was totally bogged down with the Broncos? Mr. Bowlen is a wise man.
by RenoPaul on Oct 30, 2009 5:36 PM MDT reply actions 0 recs
Paul
Do you live in Reno? I’m living in Vegas right now…
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by waltersobchakbronco on Oct 30, 2009 7:19 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
I'll tell one thing, you Nevada Wolf Packs going down, ya, as soon as they face the Boise St. Broncos!
by bfree2bronc on Oct 30, 2009 11:58 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Hey, hey
We’re in a rebuilding half century…Boise better watch it when my son (now 9) is a WR for the Wolf Pack. You guys are going DOWN then.
grumble, grumble
Howdy RenoPaul. I’ve been in Reno since ’91 and hope you enjoy it as much as I do.
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by PositivIntegral on Nov 8, 2009 8:46 AM MST up reply actions 0 recs
Press Conferences
Agreed RenoPaul. Josh isn’t economical with words. But he’s thoughtful, thorough, and never arrogant. For example, when asked a question “Can Ray Lewis, or any one player, change the way you prepare for a game”?, Josh’s way of answering was interesting. He said yes, sometimes one player can affect your preparation, to an extent, and then went on to name several other outstanding players the Ravens have on defense, and said if you don’t know where any one of them is on a play, it puts your team at a disadvantage. Although I thought the question wasn’t particularly interesting, Josh’s answer was honest, thoughtful, respectful. This is no Mike Ditka. I also think that this is a coach who will act pretty much the same in pressers and in preparing for games whether he is on a winning streak or (hopefully we don’t find this out) not.
Now. Mrs. Riley, and ONLY Mrs. Riley. How many fingers am I holding up now? -Vincent LaGuardia Gambini
by Tombstone on Oct 31, 2009 1:46 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Well written
In my opinion it was easy to see from the get-go that Coach McDaniels knew how to communicate to his team and who woudl respond to his coaching. I said for a long time that Jay Cutler was about to become the best QB in the league because of what Coach could teach him. However, after the whole situation I had to admit to myself that Jay was “uncoachable” in the way that McDaniels coaches. Tom Brady was always called out in New England and I don’t think Jay would have handled that well. Josh knew more about our team than we did before he even got here. Comments like “We didn’t even have the personnel to run a 4-3 here.” we very telling to me about how much time and effort Coach put into preparing for this job. To me , at least, it seems that he wasn’t hoping that this would be a possible job, it seems like this was the only head coaching job he wanted. To that end I am behind him 100%. His E.I. has been one of his biggest attractions to me as a fan.
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by Jon Tollerud on Oct 30, 2009 6:41 PM MDT reply actions 0 recs
thanks, I'm more emotionally vested as a fan because of it as well...
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Dude, this is a league game, this determines who enters the next round robin. Am I wrong? Am I wrong?
You mark that frame an 8, and you're entering a world of pain.
by waltersobchakbronco on Oct 30, 2009 7:18 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Great analysis of another aspect of McDaniels coaching expertise.
What a superb teacher with a set of interpersonal skills to be envied. Great post and rec’d.
Imagination is more important than knowledge. A. Einstein
by Ponderosa on Oct 30, 2009 7:06 PM MDT reply actions 0 recs
it is a big advantage for him isn't it?
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You mark that frame an 8, and you're entering a world of pain.
by waltersobchakbronco on Oct 30, 2009 7:17 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Very well done. EI is a great example of what the Broncs are doing
Well written, too, walter. Thanks for contributing this.
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by Emmett Smith on Oct 30, 2009 7:09 PM MDT reply actions 0 recs
thank you
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by waltersobchakbronco on Oct 30, 2009 7:17 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Emotional Intelligence: that says it all
That is a great post and really says what McDaniels is all about. He smarter than his age and what most people give him credit for. The stupidest thing that came out of people’s mouths when Bowlen hired McDaniels and all the drama was going on was compare him to Mangini, Weis, and any other Belichick disciple. This is all without coaching one game and giving him a chance.
I was excited when we got him as our HC and can’t say how wonderful it is to see how happy he gets after a win or when we take the lead. Like he said, you work too hard during the week not to enjoy it.
Great post walter.
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by weazel on Oct 30, 2009 10:37 PM MDT reply actions 0 recs
I never heard of any El, but if it helps the Broncos win then I'm all for it.
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by bfree2bronc on Oct 31, 2009 12:02 AM MDT reply actions 0 recs
Josh McDaniels had a team,
EI EI OOOHHH!
And on his team he had some players.
EI EI OOOHHH!
Rec’d
"He can take his'n n beat your'n, or he can take your'n n beat his'n." Florida A&M Coach Jake Gaither on Alabama Coach Paul "Bear" Bryant.
by turnerstoe on Oct 31, 2009 9:20 AM MDT reply actions 0 recs
Walter, this is an EXCELLENT post....
As a coach, I have seen McDaniels do and say things I have NEVER heard from other NFL, Rugby or team coaches. He manages to focus on the individual while maintaining the TEAM concept. In the sport I coach, I try and concentrate on creating a TEAM atmosphere while involved in a individualistic sport….I know how how hard it is to concentrate on both, and McDaniels success speaks for itself.
EI is HUGE part of this!
If I could recommend this post more than once I would my friend,
GREAT JOB!
Those that cant coach, compete!
Failing to plan is planning to fail.
All I want is 53 Rod Smiths. Is that asking too much????
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Calijoefornia.
by boydy2669 on Oct 31, 2009 10:04 AM MDT reply actions 1 recs
If you played team sports you know how hard it is to create a TEAM.
McDaniels seems to have a magical touch in choosing the right kind of player temperament that is unselfish and committed to the team concept. He then sets the tone with his leadership and attention to detail. He’s probably a genius in many ways, but clearly a savant in emotional intelligence!
Imagination is more important than knowledge. A. Einstein
by Ponderosa on Oct 31, 2009 10:15 AM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Played and coached team sports my whole life....
In Rugby. Its a hard deal for sure. I remember back to my own rugby career. Training consisted of fitness work, some individual skill work that pertained to the WHOLE team and then the other sessions during the week dealt with team play. Myself and 3 other half backs would meet early and late to work on individual skill, and on my off nights I would go and practice my goal kicking and punts.
To hear the players speak of McDaniels and Nolan’s attention to INDIVIDUAL detail and the knowledge of the player inside the team concept they are creating is incredible.
Totally with you ’Rosa!
Those that cant coach, compete!
Failing to plan is planning to fail.
All I want is 53 Rod Smiths. Is that asking too much????
"Peyton Hillis didn’t rip the sleeves off his jersey, they flew off out of fear."
Calijoefornia.
by boydy2669 on Oct 31, 2009 10:50 AM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
That's funny, when I played Rugby (badly) we had two different kinds of training:
Fitness work, skill drills, and getting too drunk to remember what we had done at practice.
"It's the first time that I've probably ever seen a 260 pound back run into a free safety and go flat on his back, I mean it was exciting." ~John Elway
by jibbons on Oct 31, 2009 11:56 PM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
It seems most rugby players have something in common!
Imagination is more important than knowledge. A. Einstein
by Ponderosa on Nov 1, 2009 12:48 AM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Think everyone had that part Jibbons!
Those that cant coach, compete!
Failing to plan is planning to fail.
All I want is 53 Rod Smiths. Is that asking too much????
"Peyton Hillis didn’t rip the sleeves off his jersey, they flew off out of fear."
Calijoefornia.
by boydy2669 on Nov 1, 2009 4:46 AM MDT up reply actions 0 recs
Great take, Walter....
I think this is right on, and is really important.
It has been interesting to me to contrast McD’s psychological/emotional approach with that of Mike Singletary out here in the Bay Area. McD is so consistent and even-keel. Singletary is all over the map—dropping his pants in the locker room; over-praising his guys as a potentially special team, then watching them get totally dismantled by Atlanta. That little stunt he pulled with Dre Bly after Bly’s boneheaded premature celebration/fumble was the height of psychological dysfunction.For those who missed it, Singletary had Bly step up to the microphone during Singletary’s press conference and apologize to the fans and the media basically for his stupidity. Singletary said that Bly wanted to do it, but that’s a load of malarkey. Contrast the growing loyalty BM is feeling for McD with the resentment buried in shame and distrust that Bly has to feel for Singletary. I think that McD is actually as much of a disciplinarian as Singletary, but he protects and respects his players, and his approach is worlds apart.
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by Broncs Cheer on Oct 31, 2009 10:41 AM MDT reply actions 0 recs
Excellent, excellent insight, Walter!
One of the reasons I believe Shanahan lost some of his relevance is that he seemed to become more aloof with time. It’s all well and good to play the cool customer, but personally, I started to tire of seeing him hardly react at all after big plays and big games, both good and bad.
Football is an extremely passionate game, and I think that you have pointed out perfectly how McD rides that fine line between being a robot and being a slave to his emotions. Based on how his demeanor translates to myself as a fan, I can see clearly how he has used that to mold this team. As boydy said above, it takes a special preson to be able to coach with an individual focus within a team context. McDaniels does that beautifully, and coupled with his football acumen, it has IMO been the biggest factor in bringing us to where we are today.
Once again, great post! Highly and enthusiastically Rec’d!
- Jason
Horton is WIN - HORVIL TIKI
by jubei on Oct 31, 2009 11:03 AM MDT reply actions 0 recs
Well Done Walter!
Thank you for the lesson. This is just one more reason why I’ve worn a smug grin since the preseason. Josh McDaniels is the Broncos best offseason acquisition for sure. Highly Rec’d.
Character may be manifested in the great moments but it is made in the small ones -- Philip Brooks
by KaptainKirk on Oct 31, 2009 4:11 PM MDT reply actions 0 recs
Awesome post
When McDaniels was first hired, I questioned it from the standpoint that I didn’t think that this team needed an offensive-minded coach. That all went away when I watched the press conference.
In fact, I watched the press conference on my computer 3 times in my hotel room. I was just blown away listening to the guy speak. I’ve never thought that he came across as arrogant. I thought that he came across as a well-spoken individual that carefully conceives everything that he says.
I coach youth and high school baseball and softball, and in many ways, I’ve seen Coach McDaniels as being very similar to myself in a lot of ways. I’m a firm believer that the spotlight should be on the players on the field, but when it comes time to answer questions about what went on, particularly tough questions, that’s my job. The players should never have to apologize or explain anything. If they get caught out of position or if something goes wrong in a game, it’s my fault, not theirs. That’s the beauty of youth sports, and I think that Josh McDaniels has carried this in some ways into the professional ranks. On the field, it’s about the players. Off the field, he keeps it that way by putting himself in the spotlight to answer for them.
More than that, he and I seem to like the same kind of players. I was talking to a friend in the softball coaching world – a very good, highly successful, well-respected coach – and I mentioned how much I love having a certain player on my team. He mentioned that she isn’t the most talented in the world, and he’d rather have someone else. Obviously, opinions differ, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
In my opinion, though, being a great player has nothing to do with talent. Just like being a coach, players aren’t born with a “greatness gene”. It comes through work. It comes through putting the team first. It comes, simply, by playing to win every second of every game. That’s how the Broncos players play, and that’s how the Broncos coaches coach.
I’m lovin’ every second of it.
"I intend to kick your ass today." - Denver Broncos legend Tom Jackson
by wtnelson on Nov 1, 2009 1:30 AM MDT reply actions 0 recs

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